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  1. Confused
    October 24, 2018 @ 8:19 PM

    What do you do if you’re with a man who looks down on your natural femininity? When I am vulnerable, or try to embrace my emotional side my partner resents me and tries to tell me to suck it up basically. I see it frequently, emotional women and ‘girly’ women on tv and in real life make him angry and so I have no choice other than to be more masculine in nature. I am very accepting and caring for him when he is emotional or expresses his feelings, for once I would like to be nurtured.

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    • Stephanie
      October 24, 2018 @ 8:51 PM

      Thank you for your comment. Most men would like women to be more feminine because it increases the sexual polarity between the masculine and the feminine. Sometimes women who have been more masculine (in behaviour) can attract men that aren’t as masculine and don’t want to step up and be the man but want the woman to be the man instead. I don’t know anything about you, your partner or your relationship dynamics, but a woman should ALWAYS be allowed and encouraged to be her feminine self. Having said that, an empowered woman is strong in her femininity. Not in a feminist way, but rather she knows her strength and has a lot of confidence in herself. Men are attracted to confident women. They want women to need them, but not be needy. And if a man doesn’t want a confident woman, then that’s because he’s not a confident man and the only way to feel superior is to make the woman feel inferior. That’s not a healthy or fulfilling relationship. You deserve to be nurtured. Don’t accept anything less than what you truly deserve.

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  2. Victoria
    September 27, 2017 @ 9:55 AM

    Wonderful article! All great points – thanks for the reminder.

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    • Stephanie
      September 27, 2017 @ 10:27 AM

      It’s my pleasure Victoria. Thank you!

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  3. Fernanda
    September 27, 2017 @ 8:45 AM

    Awesome reminders! You should make a cheat sheet for us 🙂

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    • Stephanie
      September 27, 2017 @ 10:25 AM

      Great idea! I will do that and post it in the group!

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