After a year and a half of this so-called pandemic, there should be an uprising of righteous action… of the Divine masculine male. But the ones that are standing up, speaking out, and fighting back… against the tyranny… are mostly women.
Men are supposed to be the protectors of women and children.
I don’t care if that sounds sexist because this is about the differences between the sexes. And right now, the women are more like men than the men are!
The hijacking of the Divine feminine and turning them into men wannabees is a topic for another day but you can read about how that looks in the article below.
What concerns me more at this time is the extent to which the Divine masculine has been essentially neutered. This is a huge problem on many levels, and especially sexually.
Relationships are built on sameness but sexual attraction is based on differences.
As anyone in a long-term relationship knows, you can love each other but not necessarily want to have sex with each other. You can enjoy the commitment but lack the passion and eroticism. You can want the stability but yearn for excitement. And nothing kills passion, desire and excitement more than a de-masculinized male.
I cannot begin to tell you how indifferent couples become when their polarity is diminished. It’s like having a buddy, instead of a lover. Sure, you get along just fine… because you’re essentially the same… but who wants to have sex with their buddy? Umm… that’s a hard pass for me.
Speaking of hard… men have gone soft.
Literally and figuratively.
“It is difficult these days for a man to figure out what he brings to the party for the modern woman who appears to have everything: career, money, independence, friends. The one obvious thing he can provide is a hard penis. The good part is that it’s true that women cannot supply this on their own. The scary part is that the hard penis can be an unreliable resource.” ~ Michael Castleman
And it can be unreliable for many reasons. Let me count the ways…
There are the obvious, or not-so-obvious-to-women issues of his self-esteem, concern over penis size and performance anxiety, not to mention anxiety in general.
There is also relationship problems, such as desire discrepancy.
But then you’ve got men with low testosterone and/or excess estrogen. Does estrogen sound familiar? It should because women are supposed to be the ones with high estrogen (and low testosterone). Men are supposed to be the opposite… high testosterone (and low estrogen). However, more and more men are becoming more and more like women.
“Illness, drugs, dietary imbalances, lifestyle, and certain aspects of normal aging help accelerate this process and raise estrogen levels to unhealthy heights. One of the first things we notice is that levels of aromatase, the testosterone-to-estrogen convertor, increase. In addition, methods of eliminating estrogen once it has been created, decline. As a result, the typical middle-aged man becomes over-estrogenized.” ~Eugene Shippen, MD & William Fryer
Notwithstanding all of that, there are the equally relevant issues of systemic castration of the male by society. One cannot underestimate the impact that the MeToo movement had on men. It was basically an attack on the masculine male.
Are there some bad men out there? Absolutely. Are they all bad? Not at all. And yet many are behaving as though they are.
And to make matters worse, right now there’s a lot of men walking around wearing face diapers and following the rules like “good” little girls do. I’m going to take a lot of flack for saying that, but if I’m the only one with the balls to say it, then we’ve got a serious shortage of balls.
Any woman connected to her intuition, her heart and her common sense knows that something isn’t right in the world at the moment. Things do not make sense. Red flags should be going off that there’s an imminent threat to humanity… and it’s not from a virus. And this is where the Divine masculine male needs to stand up.
Remember the old days when men were knights in shining armour? How they fought to protect the women and children from those that would do them harm. Remember when men were heroes?
Deep down, all men want to be heroes.
Normally, men are seeking to feel competent, needed and trusted.
Well, ladies, now is the time to remind them that we need them, that they can protect us and that we trust them to do so. Now is their chance to be the hero.
The Divine masculine is powerful, but not dominating. He’s strong, but not violent.
Unfortunately, what I’m seeing right now is a lot of compliance. That’s not masculine! The Divine masculine does not behave like a slave.
Here’s what you can do to support your man in re-connecting to his Divine masculine male self:
Start telling him what you WANT. Men ultimately want to provide for women… physically, financially and sexually.
Stop telling him what to DO. In case you haven’t noticed, this barely ever gets the results you want.
Stop trying to CHANGE him. This almost always backfires. And if you do manage to change him, the level of resentment he will have for you will only destroy your relationship.
Ask him for HELP. Men love to help women. It makes them feel needed. PS: if you struggle with letting men do things for you, I invite you to consider that letting men take care of you is something they want to do. So, let them.
Embrace your FEMININITY. Nothing brings out the masculine more than the feminine.
Encourage less consumption of estrogen-enhancing food or environmental substances (xenoestrogens). These are major players in men’s rise in obesity, man boobs, erectile dysfunction and their increasingly docile behaviour.
Pay attention to your man… SEXUALLY. Sex is important to men. If sex is not important to your man, then you need to look into that. But for the most part, men seek intimacy through sex. And when their sexual needs are met, they feel strong and confident.
Ask him to take off the damn mask! A man wearing a muzzle is not a Divine masculine male. It’s not only unattractive but downright embarrassing. And any man that allows someone to tell his wife and child to wear a mask is also not the Divine masculine male. The longer he continues to participate in this mass humiliation ritual, the less masculine he is going to feel.
Here’s the thing…
There’s an existential threat to humanity of not enough real men.
Now more than ever, we need to see the rise of the Divine masculine male.
The Divine masculine is not the same as patriarchy. Patriarchy is a system of society or government in which men hold the power and women are largely excluded from it. That is old energy and it is finally dying but not without a fight. The women are rising up… and not in a feminist movement way like the past… that was hijacked by hidden agendas that sought to encourage women into the workforce so that they could collect more taxes and get them to put their children into institutions run by the state. Basically, put her to work and have her give up her children. All under the guise of giving women more “freedom.” No, this is the real Divine feminine reasserting her true power. She has been suppressed long enough.
However, she cannot ascend without the equal and opposite rising of the Divine masculine.
The masculine supports the feminine. And the feminine supports the masculine.
One cannot exist without the other.
It’s time to unite!
And remember this…
“When enveloped in feminine love, the true power of masculinity is set free.” ~ Bill Weber
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