If you think that wearing lingerie is just for him—think again! Let me share with you some compelling reasons why you need to get yourself some gorgeous lingerie… RIGHT NOW!
Lingerie is profoundly feminine
It has the power to make you feel attractive, confident, sexy and glamorous. Lingerie itself is beautiful to look at. The lace, the ribbons, the bows, the satin… it’s designed to look and feel sensual.
If you want to feel like a woman, you need to dress like one. Women are softer and more sensual than men… which is part of our allure. Own it. Reclaim your femininity!
Because when you look sexy, you feel sexy, and vice versa. It’s a nice vicious cycle!
Tip: Everyone has specific colours that suit their skin tone and look great on them. Buy your lingerie in THOSE colours.
It can make you feel powerful
Women are virtual powerhouses of sexual energy. Instead of trying to suppress it, why don’t you embrace it? You’re doing this as a source of body empowerment… because it turns YOU on… to look and feel sexy.
Remember, you are doing this for you, not him.
BUT… if your man just happens to see you in it… then you might just bring him to his knees! You are in the driver’s seat, so take the wheel!
Tip: Make sure that you buy only what you truly feel good in. If it’s uncomfortable or unflattering, then that’s not very empowering, is it?
It’s erotic and exciting
Lingerie can add a little excitement to your everyday life. A secret that only you, and possibly your partner (if he’s lucky), know about. No matter what you are wearing on the outside, underneath you will know that you are a seductress.
Wearing something sexy under your clothes can make you feel a bit naughty too. That’s erotic. People won’t know what you’re up to… and that’s what makes it exciting.
You are a sexual being and this allows you to express your sensuality.
There is no judgment here because nobody else needs to see you in it but you.
Tip: Take the time to admire yourself in your lingerie before getting dressed for the day. Allow yourself to be turned on by it. Because feeling turned on is pleasurable, in and of itself.
It’s an act of self-love
You wear it to feel special. To feel good about yourself. To feel pleasure. It’s a way to pamper yourself. To remind yourself that you are worthy and that you deserve it.
You are simply showing appreciation for your body by adorning it.
You can also wear it to help you get over your modesty. Say whaat? Because sometimes having someone see you completely naked can be a bit daunting. This can help to make you feel more comfortable, while at the same time, highlighting your assets.
That’s a double win!
Tip: Make yourself a priority by setting aside time to go shopping for it. Remember, you are doing this for you, so make sure to find the time to do it!
To release your inner sex goddess
You are a goddess and you are meant to be worshiped. To feel like a sex goddess, you need to regularly indulge in pleasure and feel sensual. You can wear it simply to please yourself or to practice the art of seduction. When you embrace your sexuality, men are naturally drawn to you.
A woman who owns her feminine power is a force to be reckoned with. Be the force!
Tip: You are a goddess. Dress like one. Indulge in fine quality lingerie that feels good. You deserve it. Don’t forget… you’re a goddess!
To increase your self-confidence
Every woman has at least one part of her body that she loves. Use lingerie to enhance your figure and accentuate your assets. By celebrating your body, you gain more confidence.
Self-confidence is sexy. The more you have of it, the sexier you will be. Trust me.
Tip: Ask for help to be sure that the fit is just right. This is important ladies. Most women are wearing the wrong sized undergarments. Don’t be shy. Ask for assistance.
The sales ladies are not judging you. They are there to help you look and feel your best. Be sure to get some matching sets of bras and panties for a more streamlined look and buy 2-3 panties or thongs for every bra.
It can spice up your love life
Nothing spices things up like some sexy new lingerie. Men are visual creatures. I don’t think there’s a man alive that doesn’t love lingerie.
And seeing you in it will turn him on— big time!
It also reduces over-exposure… and leaves a little something to the imagination… because you’re not “putting it all out there.”
Plus it creates erotic obstacles when you are wearing it because you must take THIS off, to get to THAT. Sounds fun to me!
When you dress up for sex, you make it feel like more of a special occasion.
You can also use it to create anticipation. Leave it lying around or let him see you it before going out for your date night.
If you are feeling especially naughty, come back from the ladies’ room with your panties in your hands. Then either give them to him or let him see you putting them in your purse.
Just knowing that he is sitting across the table from you, while you are not wearing any panties, will drive him wild. It’s exciting for both of you. Believe me.
Tip: Be sure to remove the tags… all of them. Not just the sales tag, but even the labels. You don’t need to advertise the store that it came from or the size you are wearing. Plus, the labels only detract from the clothing… they never enhance it.
Now, go out there, and buy that sexy lingerie! And if you own any grannie panties, burn them!
Join the sexual revolution… by wearing your bra… the sexiest one you can find!
Photo Credit: Bella Boudoir