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I believe that women need to support, motivate, and empower each other. We need to help and encourage one another so that we can all reach our full potential.  Which brings me to why I’m here…

My name is Stephanie. I’m 55 years old, married for 32 of those, and the mother of two boys who are 21 and 26. I’m happy and healthy and I have a fulfilling sex life.

I’m not a doctor, a psychiatrist or a sex therapist. I’m simply a woman who has been at both ends of the libido spectrum and who has taken an intense interest in learning everything I can about sex and how to increase pleasure in my life.

What I’ve learned is that sex is vital to our health, our happiness, and our intimate relationships. In fact, I believe that sex is a game-changer and a lifesaver.  At least it has been for me.

I not only feel great, but I believe I look it too. I believe I’m getting better with age. I feel the sexiest, and most alive, I’ve ever felt. And it feels amazing!

I created my website and my online course as a means of sharing the information I’ve learned with as many women as possible. Why? Because I think that many women aren’t in touch with their sensuality, and therefore, missing out on their greatest gift… their sexuality.  

Reclaiming my health and sexuality has made a tremendous difference in my life, and it’s my sincere hope that you will let me help you to do the same.

My Story

I would say that I normally had a very high libido. Although, long-term use of birth control pills, taking 3 years to get pregnant, and suffering 2 miscarriages, did take a toll on my libido and my sex life.

After going through so much to have my children, it was easy to devote my life to them, but I lost myself in the process. Then one day, I realized that I wasn’t happy. The kids were getting older and didn’t need me as much, and my husband and I were living like roommates… instead of lovers.

And that made me sad because I loved my husband. But I just didn’t feel like having sex with him. That’s when I knew that something was wrong and needed to change. And not just for him, but for me too. 

I was stressed, exhausted and I wasn’t sleeping well. I looked old, I felt old and I had no libido. I was miserable and I knew I had to do something.

I was always keen on studying health and nutrition, but it became a real motivation when I actually felt terrible. So I immersed myself in health and making myself a priority and made some drastic changes to reduce stress and improve sleep. I did the work, and within months, I felt so much better.

However, it was my intense desire to learn everything I could about sex that helped get my libido going. It turns out that I had been suppressing my sexuality and sabotaging my own pleasure. And thus began a passionate mission to regain my sexuality and increase pleasure in my life.  

Getting my sexy back… and feeling good in my body… reminded me of what I was missing out on. More importantly, though, it encouraged me to make myself, my health, and my sex life a priority. No more being at the bottom of my list.

Not only did I get my libido back, but my efforts kick-started our sex life again. When you haven’t had much sex over the past couple of years, it can be difficult to get back into it. But now I knew that I was happiest when I was expressing my sexuality, not when I was denying it. And I loved feeling luscious and sensual…    and freaking amazing! 

I felt like a new, younger, vibrant and sexy woman. To go from no sex drive to a rockstar sex drive reminded me of how good that feels. And that’s what made me want to research sex as if my life depended on it… because it did. I had gotten a taste of bliss, and I would do whatever it took to continue to have it.

Everything I learned made sex that much better. I gained a whole new perspective on sex. I learned to see and do things differently and this had a major impact on my enjoyment of sex.

Getting my sexy back was a game-changer, but so was fixing my health, and making myself… and my sex life… a priority. I was happier, healthier and a whole lot nicer. It was hands down, the best decision I’ve ever made.

Mission Statement

It’s my mission to bring pleasure and happiness into your life. I want to encourage you to reclaim and embrace your sexuality. Your sexual energy is your life force. It is the erotic source in every woman. When you tap into this, you will become the woman you want to be. The woman you are meant to be. The woman you deserve to be.

I’m here to help YOU improve your health, your libido and increase your pleasure and sexual enjoyment. Not everyone has the time or inclination to research health and sex as I have, but there’s so much that we women don’t know and that is kept from us. I’m here to save you time and energy and give you all the juicy details!  

It’s my deepest desire for you to step into your radiance. I want you to be happy, to live with passion, to be fulfilled, and to have vitality and an incredible sex life. I want you to feel sensual. To experience pleasure. To be able to express your desires and live your dreams. I know this is possible for you because it’s your birthright.  

Your sexuality begins with you.  Reconnect with it and a whole new world will open up to you.

Sensuality In Bloom

A special thank you to my wonderful photographer… 

Studio G.R. Martin Photography