1. lawren green
    August 12, 2018 @ 12:18 PM

    Your comments are right on. This is the problem in our relationship with my wife. She is a manager at work and has become so masculine and competitive. Board games are not fun anymore as she must devastate me. I am heterosexual and this kills my attraction for her. Kissing her feels like kissing a man, yuk. I will work on my end to man up.


    • Stephanie
      August 12, 2018 @ 12:40 PM

      Thank you for your comment. Many women have been taught that being feminine is being weak. Society, culture, you name it, all glorify the masculine. Obviously, the masculine is wonderful, but the problem is that women are trying to emulate it… at the expense of their femininity. What women need to understand is that the feminine is just as strong and powerful… just in a different way… and that these differences are a good thing. Because as you pointed out, the more masculine she is, the less sexual attraction there is. As for you “man-ing up”, that may be required. I have no idea. More importantly though, is for your wife to “man down”, especially when she comes home from work. It’s okay to be like that to do her job, get things done and be successful, but it’s exhausting for a woman. She needs to learn to relax into her femininity. She will feel better and the attraction will return.


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