How Do You Define Success? Is it a career that you’re passionate about? Or maybe one that makes lots of money so you can have anything you want? Maybe success is being healthy and having lots of vitality? Perhaps it’s being a great mother to your children? How about all the above? But let me […]
Women are wonderful daydreamers and their natural tendency towards rumination makes them perfect for creating fantasies. Not to mention that a woman’s daily life is full of opportunities to fantasize. All of those boring chores and repetitive tasks are an ideal time to indulge in fantasy. But what is fantasy? “A sexual fantasy also called an erotic fantasy, […]
In order to be satisfied with your sex life, you need to look at how much sex you’re having and then decide if you’re happy with it. First, let me ask you… How often are you having sex? Once a week? Once a month? How about once a year? Now, here’s a question I often […]
If your sex life isn’t great, here are some potential reasons why: 1. You spend too much time on the internet We’re all guilty of this. But how many hours go by while we read our emails or find out what everyone else is up to on Facebook? Or maybe your husband spends a […]
Ahh… desire discrepancy. Haven’t we all rejected, or been rejected by, our lovers at some point? How did we handle it? Did either of us feel good about it? Probably not. There’s a better way to deal with desire discrepancies. Now, to be clear, there are just as many men turning down women, as there […]
To reconnect with our sexuality, we don’t need to have a sexual revolution, what we need is a sexual awakening. Our female sexuality has either been dormant, suppressed or repressed. If we treat our sexuality as something to awaken (since we already possess it), then we are naturally sexually empowered. But, if we treat […]
I think that the seduction between a woman and a man is the epitome of sensuality. It allows a woman to express her femininity and for a man to express his masculinity. Seduction is like a dance, as I will explain, but first, let’s start with the standard definition: According to Merriam-Webster dictionary, […]
You might be surprised to know that arousal comes BEFORE desire. Most people think that you need to have desire first to become aroused. According to Emily Nagoski, Ph. D. in her book Come As You Are, “desire = arousal in context” and that “desire comes along when arousal meets a great context.” Let me […]